we think we may benefit from some marriage guidance, my other half is having big doubts about where his life is going, can anyone give us a few names

Look for a list of therapists from the Anglo FIle on this site. Have never been to one myself but if this is a matter of saving your marriage it will definitely be worth it.

You might find some help here

http://www.midlife-men.com/

Have you both tried reading men are from mars , women are from venus? That is helpful for understanding our differences

Or try here!

http://marriageguidanceonline.com/

some counsellors say this guy gave the best ever advice

http://tyros.leb.net/gibran/

You are doing the right thing looking for help so best of luck. A problem is half solved when you recognise you have it.